A few weeks ago, Steve and I had one of our married couple friends (Matt and Kathleen) over for a morning coffee. We sat out on our backyard porch chatting over steaming mugs as Natie watched on in her swing. Church, work, outdoor activities were among the topics discussed until the inevitable happened: the baby talk. "Babies are way too expensive" Matt exclaimed. As I looked at his wife, I laughed. Then I looked back at Matt and said "But it doesn't have to be". This discussion triggered my need to blog about it.
I have been so blessed with Mommy friends who have children. So when I get an opportunity to score free clothes from them, I jump on it. I remember my girlfriend Ruth saying to me once: "I would have given you clothes a long time ago, but I did not want to offend you." Free is not offensive, it's a huge help for a new Mom. So here are some tips I have learned to raising a baby on a budget:
Step 1- Accept help from friends and family. This can come in the form of an open bag of disposable diapers or garbage bags full of hand-me-down clothes. Smile and take it. Trust me, it's worth it.
Step 2 - Yard Sales are your friend. Steve and I have found such joy in our family yard sale trips on the occasional Saturday morning. We set out with an idea of what we need and off we go. We have been able to get a pack and play, an exersaucer, a winter sled, a kiddy pool, a picnic table, books, toys, and a free First Step wagon all for under $100 thanks to garage sales. Check your local paper and head out. You might just find an amazing deal.
Step 3- Network! Facebook and kijiji are amazing for finding what you need. So surf away!
Step 4- Give when you can. If you find you are swimming in stuff don't be afraid to extend the same charity that was given to you. You will find a cycle of receiving and giving will occur.
That's all I have for now. Think cheap...you're baby won't know that difference but you're bank account will!
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